It’s all about perspective

I sat down earlier this week to write in my journal, my mind racing on a few things that I had let get under my skin.  I was ready to let it all out, analyze all the circumstances, and try to process why I was letting myself feel so defeated.  As I picked up my pen and put it to paper, however, this is what came out:

 

Don’t look at the circumstances.

Look at Jesus.

 

I stopped, actually a little bit surprised at what I had just written.  But the more I thought about it, the more I realized it was exactly the line of thinking that I needed to follow.

 

I didn’t need to spend any more time dwelling on my circumstances.  As a matter of fact, overthinking and letting small annoyances take up too much mental and emotional space is one of my greatest flaws (#recoveringperfectionist).

 

It’s too easy to look at my circumstances and, from my limited perspective, feel overwhelmed and frustrated.  I need to spend less time looking at things from the wrong perspective.  Instead, I need to get the perspective of Jesus.

 

I remember a time several years ago sitting up by Hume Lake in the Sequoia National Forest.  As I watched the early morning mist roll off the lake, the only sound was the small ripples of water washing up on shore.  I got up from my chair and walked until my toes were right at the edge of the lake.  The tiny ripples of water just barely splashed over the soles of my sandals.  As the chilly mountain lake tickled my toes, I looked down and saw a small ant scurrying along the edge of the water.

 

In that moment, I thought about how important perspective can be.  To that tiny ant scurrying along, the ripples from the lake were giant-sized.  To me, the ripples were barely enough to splash over the edge of my sandal.

 

A few weeks later, I was back to my sunny southern California beaches learning how to surf.  I watched my friend from the shore for a little bit and the waves looked small and friendly enough so I grabbed my board and started to paddle out.  In case you’ve never surfed before, you should be forewarned that the hardest part is paddling out past the breaking waves.  All of a sudden, as I was laying on my stomach paddling out, those small and friendly waves towered over me and threatened to knock me off my board.  What looked small and friendly from the shore became overwhelming when I was in the midst of it.

 

For the ant by the lake, a small perspective made small things feel giant.  For me on my surfboard, a too-close perspective made things feel giant too.

 

When it comes to circumstances, it’s no different.  If our perspective is too narrow and we only look at a problem from our limited point of view, it’s easy to get overwhelmed.  Or if we’re wrapped up and too close to a situation, we can easily start freaking out.  It’s not that the circumstances are all that bad; it’s that our perspective is bad.

 

I needed that reminder again this week, and maybe you do too.  I’d let myself get wrapped up in my circumstances instead of getting wrapped up in the love of God.

 

I flipped over to Colossians 1:15-20 and decided that instead of spending the morning thinking about my problems, I wanted to think about Jesus.  Here’s what I read:

 

The Son is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn over all creation.  For in him all things were created:  things in heaven and things on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or powers or rulers or authorities; all things have been created through him and for him. He is before all things, and in him all things hold together.  And he is the head of the body, the church; he is the beginning and the firstborn from among the dead, so that in everything he might have the supremacy.  For God was pleased to have all his fullness dwell in him, and through him to reconcile all things, whether things on earth or things in heaven, by making peace through his blood, shed on the cross.

 

All things are created in Jesus.  Created through him and for him.

 

Our new puppy (that refuses to be potty trained)?  Created by and for Jesus.

My friends and family? Created by and for Jesus

The home that we live in? Created by and for Jesus.

The people that sometimes drive me crazy?  Created by and for Jesus.

My circumstances in life? Created by and for Jesus.

 

Even the circumstances I was in that were causing me grief that morning?

Created by and for Jesus.

 

If everything is made in Jesus, created through him and for him, there is NOTHING in my life or yours that Jesus isn’t present in.  Those circumstances you wish were different?  If you get the right perspective you might just find that Jesus is trying to get your attention.  Maybe there’s something he wants you to learn.  Or maybe he just wants you to know that he’s holding you and you can stop freaking out because he’s with you and he’s got it under control.  I’m not saying there’s no such thing as bad circumstances.  Believe me, I know there are.  What I am saying is that no matter the circumstance, it will always look better if you can look at it from God’s perspective.

 

Sometimes we don’t need to change our circumstances.  In fact, it might be better for some of us if for a while we stopped asking God to change our circumstances and instead started asking him to change our perspective.

 

Don’t look at the circumstances.

Look at Jesus.

 

And then look at your circumstances from Jesus’ perspective.  I promise it will all look a lot better.

 

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Jesus, I’m So Glad You Came

Last year for Christmas, I woke up early and drove down to Newport beach.  I sat on the sand by the pier with my Bible, journal, and a Christmas devotional book by Ann Voskamp.  I thought about how grateful I was that Jesus came to earth, and about just how different my life was because Christ was a part of it.

From that spot in the sand, watching a few ambitions Christmas morning surfers and the slow steady crashing of the waves, time slowed down and I had a moment to soak in what felt like a real Christmas moment.

It wasn’t about presents, decorations, parties, or Christmas cookies.

It was a moment of peace, and a moment of knowing that Jesus had come to earth and was making all things new.

It was a moment where the holiness of God trumped all the hard circumstances in my life, and for a few moments I found that I could let go of all my questions and unmet expectations and trust that God really was on the throne and He really was good.

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This year, I’m working at 4 Christmas Eve services, going home, packing, and waking up early to catch a flight home to Oregon.  I’m looking forward to seeing nieces and nephews open their presents, meeting my brand new nephew Bradley, hugging my parents and siblings, and getting to be all together as a family.  And yet in the midst of travel, presents, and the Christmas goodies my mom and sister are known for, I don’t want to lose sight of that moment at the beach last year.

This last year has been crazy and chaotic, and the peace of Christmas is something I’m in serious need of right now.  Since last Christmas, I’ve gone through a tumultuous year of changing jobs and churches, and moving and adjusting to living with new roommates.  I’ve seen a best friend get married and two other best friends get engaged (along with countless other friends getting engaged, married, pregnant, etc.), while I’ve experienced a string of dating disappointments and heartache.  I travelled to Thailand and Cambodia and had my eyes opened to the brutal reality of the sex trafficking industry.  It feels like I’ve been in a constant state of transition, and God continues to break down everything comfortable in my life.

And yet, in the midst of all of the hard and all of the change, I know that God is up to something good.

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At Christmas, we celebrate that Jesus came to earth in human flesh.  We celebrate that our God is near to us, that He too has walked this earth and shared in our experience of what it is to be human.  We celebrate that Jesus has shown us more of what God is like, and that He is loving and kind and full of grace.  And we also remember and celebrate that with Jesus coming to earth, God is breaking into our story so that He can make all things new and bring about redemption and reconciliation on earth.

It is a time to remember that Jesus has come not just into our world, but also into our lives.  And just as Jesus coming to earth is all about how God is doing something REALLY BIG to make all things new on earth as they are in heaven, God wants to do the exact same REALLY BIG thing in each of our individual lives to make all things new in our hearts just as they are in heaven.

I can look back at this last year of my life and see the hard, and the growing pains, and the ways I’ve had to die to my old ways of living, and die to my old hopes and dreams.  I can see the brokenness and the disappointment and the moments of loneliness and confusion.

Or I can look back at this last year of my life and see that God was with me in every single one of those moments, and that for every time my heart was broken, God healed it and made it a little bit more like His heart.  He made me a little bit more compassionate, a little bit more understanding of the hard things others are going through, a little bit more trusting, and a little bit more brave.

C.S. Lewis puts it this way:

“Imagine yourself as a living house. God comes in to rebuild that house. At first, perhaps, you can understand what He is doing. He is getting the drains right and stopping the leaks in the roof and so on; you knew that those jobs needed doing and so you are not surprised. But presently He starts knocking the house about in a way that hurts abominably and does not seem to make any sense. What on earth is He up to? The explanation is that He is building quite a different house from the one you thought of – throwing out a new wing here, putting on an extra floor there, running up towers, making courtyards. You thought you were being made into a decent little cottage: but He is building a palace. He intends to come and live in it Himself.”

At Christmas, we remember that God is with us.  He wants to make a home in our hearts, and sometimes it’s going to get harder before it gets better.  But through it all, we have the promise that God is with us.  That Jesus has come so that we can be reconciled to God and that every hard thing we’ve gone through is being redeemed and used by God to build His kingdom here on earth, and also in our hearts.

And so this Christmas, I look back at a hard last year, and forward to year full of unknown, and yet I say,

Jesus, I’m so glad that you came.

 

in the midst of chaos

The good thing about jet lag was I woke up plenty early to see the sunrise.

It was the third morning of our trip to Israel and our last morning staying by the Dead Sea.  Not wanting to miss this last opportunity, my roommate and I slipped out of our hotel room and slowly strolled down the street and across the sand.  Two other friends had also woken up early and were already sitting on the beach.

None of us morning people, and all before our morning coffee, not many words were spoken and we all sat in silence reflecting as we watched the sun rise over the Dead Sea.

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As I sat, I read part of Psalm 89:

I will sing of the lovingkindness of the LORD forever;

To all generations I will make known your faithfulness with my mouth.

The heavens will praise your wonders, O LORD;

Your faithfulness also in the assembly of the holy ones

As I read and prayed in the serenity of a sunrise, reflecting on God’s lovingkindness and faithfulness that I have seen in my own life, and as more vacationers slipped into the water for a relaxing morning swim in the Dead Sea, my mind wandered to the land around me.

One of the most  common questions I received about my trip was about the safety of going to Israel.  Before I left, people asked if I was worried, or if I would be safe.  Since returning, people have asked if I felt safe while I was there.  I understand (and appreciate) the concern people had over visiting Israel!  

Even as I sat on the shore of the Dead Sea, water quietly rippling up onto the sand, and spa-goers peacefully floating and soaking in the minerals in the water, I looked across the water to the mountains that marked the country of Jordan.  Jordan has become home to millions of Palestinian and now Syrian refugees as they flee the civil unrest going on in Syria.  Traveling north less than 100 miles along the Dead Sea is the West Bank, one of the Palestinian controlled areas of Israel.

And yet the sun kept rising steadily.  Water kept rippling quietly on the shore.  Spa-goers kept floating peacefully.

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In a country that has been torn apart by war, surrounded by political instability, I sat on the shore watching the sunrise and soaking in the peacefulness of the moment.

In this world of ours, we see see truly incredible beauty, peace, and goodness existing right alongside unspeakable evil, sin, and brokenness.

There is terrible woundedness, and yet glorious redemption.

To live in a fallen world is to live in this tension of brokenness and redemption.  Evil and love.  Conflict and peace.

This is true for the world, and it’s also true for the human heart.  What exists as a macrocosm for humanity as a whole exists as a microcosm in our individual lives.  

We’re broken but we’re redeemed.  We sinful but we’re forgiven.  We’re proud and selfish but we’re capable of great love and mercy.

In your life, you might have a day, a week, or a month where it feels like everything is falling apart.  And yet in the midst of the chaos of your life, there are also moments of peace, beauty, and goodness. 

You are never all broken.  Your life is never all bad.

Even in the midst of conflict, evil, sin, and brokenness, beauty is breaking through.

Beauty will always break through.

Peace can always be found.

Hope is always available.

And so as people who have found hope, peace, forgiveness, and love in Jesus Christ, we need to proclaim this to the world.

Creation continues to proclaim the goodness of God.  Sunrises and sunsets.  Water washing on the shore.  Nature continues doing what it was made to do, and in doing so reminds us of the One who created all things.

How much more so do the people of God need to continue to proclaim to a world that suffers deeply that we have found hope.  That we have found peace.  That no matter how bleak the situation seems, there is still a God who deeply loves them and offers them a second chance.

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